Married Man

A married man wants to know…

A married man wants to know…

Q: Jeremy in Ohio - “Is it uncommon to be a happily married man, but constantly think about being with other women?” There are several answers to this question, all depending on what your personal beliefs on the subject are. If you’re a strict monogamist and/or proscribe... [Read more...]

Gay Thoughts

Is it ok for a straight man to have gay thoughts?

Is it ok for a straight man to have gay thoughts?

Q: David in Florida - “I’m a straight man who occasionally has gay thoughts and even dreams. Is that normal? I’m only attracted to women and have never been comfortable with guys in that way. But, I’ve browsed some gay sites online and caught myself looking at guys in... [Read more...]

Ex Sex

Entangled in Ex Sex

Entangled in Ex Sex

Q: Omar in Nicaragua - I’m tangled up with two women, one is my current gf and the other is my ex. We see each other once in a while, she’s wilder than my current gf. Now the ex-gf says that I have to set things clear because she still loves me and cannot move on until... [Read more...]

Married Man

A married man wants to know…

Q: Jeremy in Ohio - “Is it uncommon to be a happily married man, but constantly think about being with other women?”

There are several answers to this question, all depending on what your personal beliefs on the subject are. If you’re a strict monogamist and/or proscribe to one of the major organized religions that doesn’t encourage multiple partners, [Read more...]

August 25, 2008 | Leave a Comment


Becoming an Escort

Can I be an “escort” without being a “hooker”?

Q: Tabitha in Phoenix - I’m considering becoming an escort and I want some advice. I’m a single mother of two beautiful girls and can’t afford to pay all the bills without doing something else. I’ve been a dancer for five years and the money’s ok, but their father hasn’t paid child support in six years and I don’t have any family. Is it possible to do [Read more...]

August 25, 2008 | Leave a Comment


Ex Sex

Entangled in Ex Sex

Q: Omar in Nicaragua - I’m tangled up with two women, one is my current gf and the other is my ex. We see each other once in a while, she’s wilder than my current gf. Now the ex-gf says that I have to set things clear because she still loves me and cannot move on until things are clear. She feels I’m using her because she loves me and I’m only using her sexually. I’m not breaking up with my girlfriend, (who btw doesn’t know [Read more...]

August 25, 2008 | Leave a Comment


Monogamy and Monotomy

Did you ever notice how monogamy rhymes with monotony?

The first time I heard that was when the “Christian Troy” character on FX’s “Nip/Tuck” said it. That show has so many truly intriguing story lines about and around sex. I can’t get enough of it. It got me thinking and I had a long conversation with my girlfriend about it today. I suppose this will require some background. For all of my young [Read more...]

August 25, 2008 | Leave a Comment